Saturday, September 6, 2014

Of Sports and Kindness

"Start where you are.  Use what you have.  Do what you can."
― Arthur Ashe

On the heels of the beginning of the school year comes the start of sports.  This morning, we had the first swim meet of the season.  There were several girls new to the sport and they approached the event, which is confusing even for veteran swimmers and parents, with visible trepidation. 

At the start of her first heat, one of the new team members jumped in before the race began.  Confused, another swimmer jumped in after her.  They both began swimming toward the other end of the pool.  The announcer called for the girls to get out of the pool, but they could not hear him.  As the girl who had jumped in first reached the other side of the pool, one of the older girls on the team waited at the end of the swim lane.  She signaled to the younger girl to stop and pulled her out of the water. 

I watched the interaction and found something amazing about such a tangible example of kindness -- the older girl literally extended her arms, grabbed the younger girl's hand and helped her out of the pool.  Then she patiently and gently explained what had happened and that they were going to be given the opportunity to redo the heat. 

I have seen this older girl demonstrate kindness many times, but there was something about today that truly touched my heart.  Last school year, this girl received the Most Valuable Player award in swim.  She is an amazing swimmer, but she shines for so much more than her incredible athletic ability.

The younger girl had a rough start in her new sport, but I imagine that she will remember the kindness of this older girl for a long time. 

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