Tuesday, February 9, 2016

The Kindness of "Greater Tenderness"

"There is an organic affinity between joyousness and tenderness, and their companionship in the saintly life need in no way occasion surprise."
~ William James

I was blessed to attend a Jesuit university (Thank you, Mom!).  During the Advent and Lenten seasons, the university sends out beautiful daily devotionals.  In anticipation of Lent, which begins tomorrow, the Vice President for Mission and Ministry at Georgetown University, Rev. Kevin O'Brien, S.J. wrote the following:

"As I reflect on my own discipleship at the start of the retreat, I follow the lead of Pope Francis in this Jubilee Year of Mercy and strive to live with greater tenderness:  to treat others and myself more gently.  What virtue or disposition do you seek to cultivate with God’s help?  If you instead seek freedom from a disposition or habit, consider a different kind of fast: fasting from fear, cynicism, or excessive critique, for example.  As we go about these spiritual exercises, we are careful not to turn the retreat into a self-improvement regime.  More fundamentally, this is a privileged time to encounter God’s abundant grace, with which all things are possible."

Father O'Brien's message left me wondering:  How can we treat others and ourselves more gently, especially during this season of Lent?
 
I posed the question over dinner to my children and hope that it will serve as a focal point as we journey through Lent this year.

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