Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Kindness, Friends and Bumpers

"God wants you to live for others and to live that presence well."
Henri Nouwen

Yesterday, I was reminded of just how fragile life can be and how precious friendship is.  After meeting another mom for yogurt, I was driving home with my children when I was involved in a fender bender.  No one was injured, thank goodness, but I was shaken up.  I called the friend who had just been with me and she came back and stayed for an hour while the paperwork was done.  She entertained my children and made me feel a whole lot better.  When it was time to go, the fender that fell off my car surprisingly did not fit in the back of my car, so she put it in her van.  Later that evening, she texted me to say that she had just gone out to her car and seen my fender again.  It made her smile because earlier when she had told her husband that I had been in an accident and that she was going to where I was, he asked her, "How do you plan on helping?"  She said she was going to offer moral support -- a gift of kindness that was just what I needed.  But as it turns out, I needed her van, too.

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