Monday, January 20, 2014

The Kindness of Wise Counsel

"The fellowship of true friends who can hear you out, share your joys, help carry your burdens, and correctly counsel you is priceless."
― Ezra Taft Benson

It is not easy to provide friends with wise counsel, but some people are amazing at it.  Recently, I needed to write a letter on an issue about which I was emotional -- basically, I felt wronged.  It was one of those things that has bugged me for days and I woke up thinking about it.  I sat down and tapped out a letter, and then called a friend of mine.  This friend is lovely.  She is smiles and joy and support -- always.  But behind the gentle and kind face is the sharp mind of a lawyer.  She shared my anger and made me laugh.  Then, she helped me to think through what I truly wanted to accomplish.  Thanks to her kindness, I was able to see through my emotions, to gain clarity, and to edit my letter to communicate what I needed to say.

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