Friday, April 11, 2014

The Kindness of Being More Expressive...

"Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it."
― William Arthur Ward

Recently, I was in my favorite stationery store talking to a store employee whom I can best call a stationery and invitation advisor.  Mari is incredibly knowledgeable about etiquette and stationery.  With common sense and good taste to boot, she is invaluable when one is deciding on -- or agonizing over -- stationery or Christmas cards or First Communion remembrance cards. (Not that I would know anyone who does that.)

On my most recent visit, I questioned messages on some of the thank you cards.  One of the most traditional stationery companies was selling cards with effusive phrases like "You're the best" printed across the front.  I asked her whether she thought that some of this was over the top.  And she shared this pearl of wisdom:  "We are so expressive with our anger.  I think we need to be more expressive with our thanks." 

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