Friday, November 14, 2014

The Kindness of a Happy Voice

"Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom."
~ Marcel Proust

The other day I really needed to hear a happy voice.  I had gone to the funeral of a third cousin, a man who died in his late 70s, and it had impacted me more than I expected.  He had been born the same year as my late father and because the relation was on my father's side, it reminded me of my father.  I was sad and all I could think of was that I wanted to hear a happy voice.  I called two girlfriends, but did not reach them.  As I was wondering what to do next, I received a text from one of my all-time favorite people, "Darling, is everything okay?"  Oh my goodness, I thought, how could he possibly know?!  His question was prompted by a technical snafu that resulted in his not receiving my blog post, which made him worry about me.  But his thinking about me and reaching out could not have been better timed.  He called me on my cell and just hearing his voice lifted my mood.  We had one of our usual madcap conversations and I found myself laughing -- and beyond grateful for the kindness of his happy voice.

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