Friday, October 25, 2013

The Kindness of a Steadfast Friend

"Above our life we love a steadfast friend."
Christopher Marlowe

Steadfast is the word that comes to mind when I think about one of my best friends.  She is unwavering and faithful in her friendship and in her many kindnesses.

As good friends for several decades, we have weathered all kinds of storms together and laughed our way through joyful and not-so-joyful moments.  One of her best qualities as a friend is that she shows up -- no big entrances, no requirements for attention, no drama.  She is one of those people who truly is always there for her friends.  Although she travels frequently, there is never a time when she has not been a telephone call or text away.  She has called me from China, Brazil and parts in between.

Earlier this week, on the day when both my husband and my mother were in car accidents, my very good friend was out of the country traveling on business.  I texted her what was happening.  Late that night, just after arriving from an overseas flight, she texted me to ask if I wanted to talk. 

Her gentle and constant presence is a source of tremendous support, and a kindness I feel blessed to enjoy.

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