Sunday, July 13, 2014

The Kindness of Saying No Graciously

"I think sometimes it is more important to be gracious than to win."
― Dorothy Kilgallen

I have a friend who has a very gracious way of saying no.  When she can't do something, she always says no kindly.  For example, if she is invited somewhere, but cannot go, she shares how much she would like to and that she is sorry that she cannot go.  And then she generally proposes another plan.  I don't think I have ever heard her say no without offering an alternative.  This kindness in dealing with friends and invitations is greatly appreciated, and it is no surprise that she has many wonderful relationships and a busy social calendar.

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